The OGD is at it again! ‘I’m 40, living with my mom in a small town. How do I meet a man?’
Stand back because here comes some tough love…

The men you are attracted to aren’t good for you, they’re just familiar. Some people go through life not really analyzing what their attraction is based on. As the “Y” in “GYO” you can’t help but wonder, ‘why am I like this?’. Why was my imagination filled with older men who clearly loved and cared for me but my reality was filled with emotionally distant ‘straight’ dad hookups?

I found my boyfriend’s profile on Grindr this morning with relationship status of [single] with the same bio as when I met him three months ago.

Dating isn’t easy if you’re doing it right. Being attracted to a different age group only makes it harder. GYO dating brings its own significant struggles.

Comedy is not politically correct. Does Dave Chapelle go too far or is there some truth to things we don’t want to hear and some of it’s funny.

My time as reddit GYO top mod was successful, having started and grown the subs from 1 to over 20,000, 8 years later. I also realized my brand of leadership was not what a reddit group of r/GYO’s size needed going forward.

At the heart of any lasting relationship is effective and positive communication. It is the cornerstone of any relationship and it can also be the downfall when done ineffectively.

I’ve seen all sorts of situations for older guys. In general, older men need upwards of a million dollars in assets and investments for comfortable retirement planning. In some cases, that’s generous and others it’s not enough.