The men you are attracted to aren’t good for you, they’re just familiar. Some people go through life not really analyzing what their attraction is based on. As the “Y” in “GYO” you can’t help but wonder, ‘why am I like this?’. Why was my imagination filled with older men who clearly loved and cared for me but my reality was filled with emotionally distant ‘straight’ dad hookups?
I’ve seen all sorts of situations for older guys. In general, older men need upwards of a million dollars in assets and investments for comfortable retirement planning. In some cases, that’s generous and others it’s not enough.