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How Democrats Regain Power
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How Do Dems Regain Power

Intro

When covid hit I got in to a discussion with a 60 yo feminist woman. JANET. She thinks her struggles were harder than a white gay boy growing up like me. Comparing current kids to hers and my upbringing, she conjured the Cold War. I said my fear growing up was AIDS. She quickly fired back icy and cold “but that’s completely preventable”, this straight woman pissed me off. You know what else is completely preventable? Pregnancy. Just don’t get raped. 

You know who get raped a lot? Gay men… 

She lectured me about covid and the threat to nurses even as she had covid with in proximity of me. She chided “my friends are dying”. Hypocrite. When I said the elderly and unhealthy in this country (high blood pressure, diabetes, overweight) were most at risk, she denied it, saying everyone needs to get vaxxed. Then the virus would stop. That is clearly impossible and false. But lives in a state of denial.

Rule number one, never shout ‘My friends are dying to a gay man’ with the expectation of receiving sympathy. Not unless ALL OF YOUR FRIENDS ARE DEAD.

All of my boyfriends watched and nursed all of their friends as they dead. All of them. Straight people will never understand that. LGBT built their own legal power house that won legal battles because of this. Starting with AIDS, then housing rights and privacy rights, and then marriage rights.  

Make no mistake before straight women were our allies they voted against us and they were our enemies. They accused us of steeling their husbands and brain washing their kids because it was convenient for them. Never acknowledging that ‘the call might be coming from inside house’ and maybe women aren’t as great of a partner as they think they are.  

Then Dems took LGBT under their umbrella and diluted and used gays to their own advantage. LGBT and Dems watered down the messaging behind LGBT, Gay appropriating everything. Similar to how they use blacks.

What is it? Passive aggression.

Aggression = anger, 

Toxic masculinity

Passive = Quiet, tentative, indecisive, lacking confidence

Combine them to get “quiet anger”… 

Passive aggression is a type of indirect aggression. It allows a person to express anger and related emotions without directly communicating these feelings. People expressing passive aggression often retain the ability to deny that they intended their behavior aggressively.

That’s when things get weird. 

PA is common in people who repress their feelings, lack confidence, or are subordinate. Unfortunately, that means it’s prevalent in women and gay men, especially those attracted to older big more dominate men. GYO I’m talking to you. 

As I said it’s not one behavior but a collection of behaviors or traits that indicate PA, so just because you catch someone in a lie or them lashing out for no reason doesn’t mean it was PA. 

If you have these traits or know someone who does, you can start the much needed work to correct this behavior. 

  1. Ghosting – nothing more PA than ghosting. 
  2. Being late instead of being clear or saying they don’t want to they will just drag their feet and wait till the last minute to do it. 
  3. Silence – the silent treatment is a clear indication of PA
  4. Excuses – if they aren’t honest or clear and you get a boatload of excuses
  5. Sarscam – to cover or mislead away from the truth about how you feel. 
  6. Backhanded complements – ‘look good today, I’m surprised.’, or ‘I was actually able to enjoy the night with you.’   
  7. Insists you just misunderstood them.
  8. Talks to uninvolved parties about what’s wrong to vent

So where does it come from?

People pleasing, or growing up in an angry or violent house hold where it was safer or better to be quiet, or constantly getting shutdown or overruled regardless of the topic or idea. 

How to fix it?

See a therapist and address your fear of speaking up. Why fear, and methods for entering conflict so you can feel safe while addressing issues that bug you. 

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